I sat down and read this book cover to cover in an hour. It is a fabulous, thought-provoking, and inspiring book filled with drawings, word art, and great advice. In the way it is written and designed it gets you thinking practically and creatively. I found it part inspiration and part workbook which was very helpful.
The GoodReads blurb: “Who hasn’t asked the question “How can I find and follow my true calling?” Elle Luna frames this moment as “standing at the crossroads of Should and Must.” “Should” is what we feel we ought to be doing, or what is expected of us. “Must” is the thing we dream of doing, our heart’s desire. And it was her own personal journey that inspired Elle Luna to write a brief online manifesto that, in a few short months, has touched hundreds of thousands of people who’ve read it or heard Elle speak on the topic. Now Ms. Luna expands her ideas into an inspirational, highly visual gift book for every recent graduate, every artist, every seeker, every career changer. The Crossroads of Should and Must has a universal message—we get to choose the path between Should and Must. And it gives every reader permission to embrace this message. It’s about the difference between jobs, careers, and callings. The difference between going to work and becoming one with your work. Why knowing what you want is often the hardest part. It gives eye-opening techniques for reconnecting with one’s inner voice, like writing your own obituary (talk about putting life in perspective). It talks about the most common fears of choosing Must over Should—money, time, space, and the ultimate fear: total vulnerability—and shores up our hesitation with inspiring stories of and quotes from the artists and writers and thinkers who’ve faced their own crossroads of Should and Must and taken the leap. It explains the importance of mistakes, of “unlearning,” of solitude, of keeping moving, of following a soul path. Presented in four chapters—The Crossroads, The Origin of Should, Must, and The Return—inspired by the hero’s journey outlined by Joseph Campbell, The Crossroads of Should and Must guides us from the small moment, discovering our Must, to the big moment—actually doing something about it, and returning to share our new gifts with the world.”
As the title suggests this book is great for people seeking their life calling and for people who are at a crossroad in their life and not sure what to do next. This short book will guide you through sorting through the basic questions you need to answer to get to the root of you and begin to formulate small actions you can take to move forward. Luna’s idea isn’t about making a decision and making an overnight transformation. It is about the process or journey to your ‘Must’ which is far more achievable and sustainable for us all.
I loved the quotes throughout and I especially liked the questions Luna asks you to ask yourself and the suggestions she gives for what you can do. I made a few notes along the way and brainstormed my answers to the questions she poses in the book. Reading this book was a great exercise in working out my direction. This isn’t a book about abandoning your job to pursue your passion without a plan. This is about helping you work out how you can live your passion and pay your bills. But at the same time it proposes that you not be afraid of a path which has no easy answers or no set guidelines.
For no other reason than to know yourself better I recommend this book; from its questions which get you to examine your Shoulds so you can know your prison, its prompt for you to define your must-have money vs. your nice-to-have money, to creating your ‘what-are-you-so-afraid-of’ list, you are bound to learn something about where you’re at and where to next.
A lovely book to boost your life and creativity for anybody and everybody.